Peacocking: How To Transform Your Look to Stand Out and Attract Women

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Think Halloween. Men and women dress up to celebrate this holiday. But tell me, there is always someone you remember, even to this day, because of what they were wearing.

People would approach that person. Ask to have photos with him. They smile, maybe laugh. And perhaps he gets girls’ numbers.

Now imagine the regularly dressed guy competing with that guy that night. How many numbers would he get over the one with a memorable costume?

He stands out. People want to be with him. But why? What draws them?

I want to introduce you to what they call peacocking.

What is peacocking?

Peacocking comes from the behavior of peacocks. They show off their flashy, colorful feathers to impress and attract a mate.

You’ve heard, “dress to impress.” Peacocking is not just about that. It’s to get their full attention and let it focus on you. Make women turn their heads and make their eyes linger on you.

Now, how can this be done? Instead of always wearing jeans and boring T-shirts, what can you wear that can have this kind of effect on women?

How can peacocking be useful?

Peacocking is when a man wears flashy, attention-grabbing clothing or accessories to stand out from other men.

Peacocking can help men attract women by making them more noticeable and memorable.

Because of peacocking, women may get curious about you. What you wear signals that you’re a fun, creative, and adventurous man.

Peacocking can help spark conversations, as what you wear may draw attention and give women a positive impression.

All this is what peacocking can do for you, as long as they don’t go overboard.

Does peacocking work?

Yes, it does. That’s why even women do it. Tell me, what do women do to stand out from other women?

They invest in make-up, clothing, and accessories. They say they do it for themselves. They don’t do it to get attention from men. But it’s far from reality.

Women with big bosoms try to show off their cleavage. Women with big butts try to wear yoga pants to accentuate their behind. It just works.

And whether they say they’re doing it not for men but to boost their confidence, the fact is, it draws men’s eyes.

It just works. That’s why rappers, celebrities, and eccentrics do it. They wear the flashiest and most colorful clothing, and they get noticed.

What should be the effect of peacocking?

You should be more noticeable, memorable, and attractive to women.

One way to measure the effect of peacocking is to see how women describe you or talk about you from afar.

If they can quickly identify you by your clothes or accessories, and if they use positive or curious words to describe you, then you are peacocking successfully. For example, if you hear women say things like:

  • “Who is that guy with the blue polo and cowboy hat? He looks so cool and adventurous.”
  • “Did you see that guy with the leather jacket and the skull ring? He looks so badass and mysterious.”

It’s awesome to be noticed when peacocking, but it’s just the first step.

What should a man do or wear to stand out and attract women?

peacocking - wear a style that suits you and makes you stand out from the crowd

1. Emphasize your uniqueness.

Sometimes you don’t need fancy clothes and accessories. Show off what makes you different and unique. This involves drawing attention to your distinctive traits.

Let’s say you rock a natural afro. Show off those curls or coils with excellent hair products. Try out different styles, like a smooth afro or fun twists.

Maybe you have a deep, killer voice. It’s a killer feature! Practice speaking confidently saying your words clearly to get attention. Slow it down a bit and see how it charms. Do things like public speaking or acting to improve your vocal skills.

Now, for those who are tall and big among friends – dressing for that body is vital. Think clothes with vertical patterns for balanced looks. Fitted shirts or jackets can shape those shoulders and waist, showing your stature. Find the perfect fit, not too tight or loose, and play with colors that make you look even more impressive.

Now, let me ask you this. What makes you unique? Blonde hair? Freckles? Big nose? What if you’re short? How about a beard? How can you use those to your advantage?

2. Don’t be basic.

You can still stand out with simple clothing as long as you avoid being basic.

Basic clothing is boring, plain, and common. It doesn’t show your personality or style. It makes you blend in with the crowd and forgettable.

If you want to wear just the basic jeans and shirt, you can do so. But don’t pick the regular plain ones. Get something with a cool design. How about an oversized shirt?

Here are some ways to spice up your simple outfit:

  • Oversized shirt: An oversized shirt can make you look relaxed and casual, but also stylish and confident. You can choose a shirt with a graphic print, a slogan, or a logo that reflects your interests or attitude. You can also play with the colors and patterns of your shirt, such as bright, dark, or pastel colors, or stripes, checks, or dots. You can pair your oversized shirt with slim-fit jeans or shorts, and sneakers or boots.
  • Jeans: Jeans are a classic and versatile piece of clothing that can suit any occasion. But not all jeans are created equal. You can choose jeans that fit your body type and preference, such as skinny, slim, straight, or relaxed. You can also choose jeans that have some details or features that make them stand out, such as rips, patches, embroidery, or studs. You can match your jeans with a plain or colorful shirt, jacket, or sweater.

3. Use accessories to stand out.

Regular guys keep it simple. They wear some shirts or pants.

To give more personality to your outfit, you could use accessories.

Think rings, watches, bracelets, necklaces, belts, hats, bags. You don’t have to get all. Try them out at the mall and see how you look.

A necklace can show your style, interest, and identity and add some sparkle or contrast to your outfit. A necklace, such as a cross, a pendant, or a dog tag, can also symbolize your faith, culture, or affiliation.

You should avoid wearing a cheap, generic, or boring watch, as it might make you look unoriginal or uninterested in fashion.

Instead, you should opt for a watch with unique or distinctive elements, such as a bold color, a large dial, a leather strap, or a digital display.

4. Change your hairstyle.

A new haircut, color, or style can significantly affect your appearance and attitude. Depending on your preference and personality, you can go for something bold, trendy, or classic.

If you don’t know what to do, go to a salon. Ask for a stylist.

A stylist is a professional who can help you choose the best haircut, color, or style for your face shape, skin tone, hair type, and personal taste.

A stylist can also help you experiment with different looks or avoid some common hair mistakes.

Your hairstyle can show your personality, mood, and style, as well as enhance your appearance and attitude. However, changing your hairstyle is not something that you should do without some planning, research, or consultation.

You should find a good stylist who can help you choose the best haircut, color, or style for your face shape, skin tone, hair type, and personal taste.

5. Get your ears pierced.

Earlobe piercings can be a way to attract women, as they can show your personality, style, and confidence.

You should opt for earrings that are subtle, elegant, and classy. A simple stud could open lots of doors.

What are the Don’ts of Peacocking?

One of the most important things to remember when peacocking is to avoid some common mistakes that can ruin your chances of attracting women. Here are some of the don’ts of peacocking that you should keep in mind:

  • Don’t be the clown. You don’t want to be the one they laugh at, not with. Going overboard with your peacocking can make you look ridiculous and desperate. For example, wearing a full-body animal costume, a rainbow wig, or a giant sombrero is not peacocking. It’s clowning. You should aim for a balance between being noticeable and being tasteful.
  • Don’t be the weirdo. What you’re wearing should match the occasion and the environment. You don’t want to look out of place or inappropriate. For example, wearing a tuxedo to a casual bar, a leather jacket to a formal event, or a Hawaiian shirt to a funeral is not peacocking. It’s weirdoing. You should consider the context and the expectations of the situation.
  • Don’t be the try-hard. You don’t want to look like you’re trying too hard to impress women or to be someone you’re not. Peacocking should be a way of expressing your personality and style, not hiding or changing it. For example, wearing something that doesn’t suit you, makes you uncomfortable, or goes against your values is not peacocking. It’s try-harding. You should be confident and authentic in your choices.

You want to be noticed, to stand out, and not just blend in. You also don’t want to be the wallflower. But you don’t want to go over the top, or you’ll look weird.

How to buy items for peacocking.

A man’s taste is totally different from that of a woman. What you might like, they may detest. That’s why you should bring along female friends so that they can choose the right items for your style and personality.

Female friends can give you honest and constructive feedback. They can tell you what looks good on you, what suits your body type, what matches your skin tone, what flatters your features, and what expresses your character.

They can also tell you what looks bad on you, does not fit you, clashes with your complexion, accentuates your flaws, and contradicts your image. They can help you avoid making fashion mistakes, wasting money, or buying items that you will never wear.

They can also introduce you to new styles, trends, and brands you might not know or consider. If you haven’t updated your closet in a while, they can show you what is popular, fashionable, and attractive in the now and what is outdated, boring, or unappealing.

Wrap Up

If you’re tired of being ignored or overlooked by women, then maybe it’s time to stand out from the crowd and attract their attention.

Peacocking is a technique that involves wearing clothes or accessories that make you look unique, confident, and fun.

Peacocking can also help you improve your appearance, express your personality, and create a memorable impression.

“But I like what I wear. It’s who I am.” Remember, we’re here for a bit of change. What you’re currently doing isn’t working. We’re just trying new things. If it doesn’t work, at least we tried. Let’s move on to other options.

Action plan: For this month, try new things out. First, find out what your style is. What ring, bracelet, or necklace goes along with it? These simple accessories can help you catch the eye of women. And even if they didn’t, it’ll add style to your outfit and boost your confidence.

Try It Now


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