Why You Should Approach Women?

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Why it's worth it to approach attractive girls

How do you handle the contradiction of being expected to make the first move with women but also being told that it’s rude and creepy in most situations?

Have you ever heard women say, “I just want to be left alone?”

They say they don’t want to talk to anyone or be asked out most of the time.

But here’s the thing: when is a good time to talk to women? They don’t tell us that. Do you wonder why?

Most men? We just stand and stare. My single auntie even said, “I just wish a man would go up and talk to me.”

Also, everyone is on these dating apps. But even there, women would not let you “approach” them. They’ll swipe left on you and go right to a much better-looking guy.

The odds are not in your favor. So, what do you do?

Women are more likely to respond to a man who is attractive. But guess what? Women are also more likely to talk to men who are confident, humorous, charismatic, and have style. And with practice, you can be that guy that they respond to.

Let’s discuss why you should practice walking up to women. It won’t just build your social skills, but you also find a girlfriend organically.

Don’t believe anyone who says you can’t go up and talk to people, especially women. With a proper, respectful, and witty approach, you can.

If you don’t, you lose.

You’re walking down a block, and you see an attractive girl, definitely your type. You have never felt awe in a long time. But with her? She’s just dreamy.

Think about it. If you approached her and got rejected, at least you know that you still need to improve.

You learned some valuable lessons. You even gained some confidence that, hey, approaching wasn’t so bad. You did not lose.

If you walk up to her and she’s very receptive to you, then you win.

But if you don’t approach her. You’re never going to see her again. The future won’t involve you and her cuddling on a sofa. It won’t happen.

It’s a cliche, but it’s true. You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.

It opens doors for opportunities.

Sure, maybe all you want is a girlfriend. But there’s so much more to it.

By putting yourself out there, you’re increasing the chances of meeting someone who might just click with you. Not just in a romantic or sexual way. It’s about broadening your social circle and expanding your horizons.

And it’s not just about romance. You might end up with a new friend, a cool companion, or maybe even a potential romantic interest. Genuine people with whom you vibe share common interests and enjoy hanging out with.

Whether you’re looking for a girlfriend, someone to laugh with, a casual fling, or even someone to sleep with, stepping up and approaching women creates these pathways you might not have imagined.

I met this woman at a conference. I thought she was cool, and I thought we would click. But we have our differences. But then she introduced me to her workmate, which turned out to be incredible. You see where I’m getting.

Even if you don’t get the girl, you will still get a girl and maybe so much more. You just have to be open to opportunities.

It will build your social skills.

Think about this: every time you talk to someone, you are practicing your talking skills. You don’t even know it, but you are getting better and better. These skills, once honed, will always be ready for you.

You’ll no longer feel nervous or lost for words when you need to talk to someone. Because you have been practicing. And that’s the thing about skills—they improve with practice.

The more you talk to women, the more you know what to do and what not to do. You notice the signs. You know when to change the topic or when to avoid it. You have this list in your head—what to say, what not to say, and when to make a funny joke. Talking to women is not only about dating or finding someone. It’s about getting these awesome talking skills that will help you in many situations. It’s like having this secret tool in your back pocket, ready to win any conversation that comes your way.

Dating apps can be unreliable.

Despite setting up a killer profile with top-notch pics and a catchy, witty bio, you can’t still get a match even if you’ve put effort into standing out. It’s like throwing a message in a bottle into the ocean.

It just doesn’t work for me at all. I can count the matches I get in a month. A month!

I’ve tried Bumble, where they said women should be the ones to make the first move. Yet no one’s trying to message me. If they did, they’d just say hi. And even if we get past that, conversations die down easily.

I managed to invite a girl out. I thought we were on. Really on. But twenty minutes before the date, I got blocked.

I just wished there was something better.

When you approach women, at least you’ll have an idea of where you stand.

You get to talk to women in uncommon places.

Have you heard the phrase, “Don’t shit where you eat?” It means don’t try to hit on women at your workplace because it might get awkward.

There are other places they say are no-go zones, maybe like the gym, where they say that women are just there to work out.

But let me tell you, there are numerous other places you might not have thought of where you actually meet women. It’s not just in bars and clubs.

Opportunities to chat with women you don’t know can pop up almost anywhere. Places like the pharmacy, farmers market, or even the gas station might seem random, but sometimes, those unexpected interactions lead to meeting the most gorgeous women.

Waiting in line at the bank? Browsing some chips at the bodega? Sometimes, it’s just about seizing the moment.

If you know what to do, then you get a chance to talk to women you like. It’s entirely possible. I even went to a funeral and got a number of a girl there.

You add more fun and excitement to your life.

Talking to women makes life more fun and exciting. It’s like going into a world with different views and things to do.

You meet women who are different from you, with their own funny ways and stories. You see more things in life. Sometimes, they might say no to you, but you don’t let it bother you. Sometimes, they might say something smart or funny that makes you happy. And hey, the stories you hear, you can tell them to your friends later. It’s all fun. It’s like an adventure. Every time you talk to someone, you can learn something, laugh, and maybe even find a story that you love. It’s like a ride that makes you feel all kinds of things and makes life more interesting. It makes every day more fun.

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