How To Get A Girl To Come Over To Your Place

Have you ever wondered if a girl you like would be willing to come over to your place?

Maybe you met her online, at a bar, or through a friend. Maybe you have been texting her for a while, or you just got her number. Maybe you want to hang out with her, watch a movie, cuddle, or more.

But how do you get her to say yes to your invitation?

How do you make her feel comfortable and excited to see you at your place? How do you avoid rejection or awkwardness?

If you have ever asked yourself these questions, then I will share with you some simple and effective tips on how to get a girl to come over.

Many guys struggle with getting a girl to come over. Especially if they don’t know her well or they are not confident in their skills. Because heck, even talking to women can be scary.

Men worry about saying the wrong thing, doing the wrong thing, or being seen as creepy, needy, or desperate.

But it doesn’t have to be that way. Getting a girl to come over is not as hard as it seems if you follow some simple and effective tips.

By following these tips, you will increase your chances of getting a girl to come over and have a great time with you.

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Ways To Invite Over A Woman To Your Place

1. There is no best time.

Wondering about the ideal time to invite a girl to your place? The truth is, there’s no specific time. You can ask her anytime.

You can pop the question at any point, be it the third date, the fifth date, or even right from the moment you meet. The timing is flexible.

Let’s even say you’re just talking through some apps. You can get a woman to come over even before you meet or invite her out on a date.

Maybe you’re looking for some casual fun. In that case, do you even need to go on a date? Probably not.

It’s risky but there are adventurous women out there who are open to trying new things and are equally interested in meeting an adventurous guy. So let me tell you right now. It’s totally possible for a man to get a girl to come over even without meeting her first.

So, how do you know when a girl is ready to come over? You can look for some signs. There are subtle hints to look out for.

Is she heavily flirting with you? Does she find your jokes amusing? Is she quick to respond to your messages? Is she available and free for you that night?

If your interactions are marked by lively banter and quick replies, she might just be ready for the next step – visiting your place. If you have a good connection and she is free, she might say yes to your invitation.

Whether or not you’ve just talked to a woman, or already went out with her on a couple of dates, just go ask her to come over. She might be into the idea too. But before you do, make sure the signs are positive.

2. Find out more about her.

One of the keys to getting a girl to come over is to know more about her.

You don’t want to invite her over and get rejected because she has other plans or she is not interested in what you have to offer. That’s why you need to do your research.

Talk to her and listen to her. Find out what she likes and dislikes.

What are her hobbies, interests, and passions? What are her favorite shows, movies, and music?

The more you know about her, the more you can create a good reason for her to come over that appeals to her.

Another important aspect is to find out if she is free and available.

Ask her casually what she is doing later tonight. If she says she has nothing planned, then suggest coming over.

This is the most important part, because even if she likes you, she might not be able to come over if she has other obligations or commitments the next day. She won’t risk them just to see you, unless she is really into you.

So take the safe route and find out about her schedule. If she is free and available, it’s a good sign. It means she is open to spending time with you and possibly more.

3. Give her a reason to get her to come over.

Women like to play a game of pretend. Women want to have sex but they don’t want to be seen as slutty or horny. What do you do? Give them an excuse.

Give her a very good excuse for them to come over without making her look like a horny slut. Give her a reason to come to you.

You need to know what she wants and likes. Listen to what she tells you and show interest in her passions.

You can also use your hobbies, skills, or talents to attract her. For example, if you are good at cooking, offer to make her some delicious pancakes.

Or, if there is a new place near your home that she might like, suggest checking it out.

If she loves music, tell her about your home studio and invite her to see it.

Be subtle and casual, not pushy or creepy. You shouldn’t sound sleazy at all like you have a motive to bring her over.

Don’t make it sound like a date or a hookup, unless you are both joking about it.

Make up a smart and harmless excuse that matches her interests and makes her want to come over. Make her feel comfortable and welcome at your place.

Some possible excuses you can use are:

• You have a cute pet that she can cuddle with or play with.
• You have a movie or a show that you want to watch with her, or that she has been wanting to watch with you.
• You have a bottle of wine or a cocktail that you want to share with her, or that she has been curious about.
• You have a book or a magazine that you want to lend her, or that she has been looking for.

These excuses are not too obvious or too boring, and they can spark some conversation or intimacy between you and her.

So there, any reason or excuse that you could give her where she could easily agree to come over to your place

They also give her a reason to stay longer at your place, or to come back again. Remember, the key is to make her feel relaxed and happy, not pressured or uncomfortable.

4. Make it easy for her to say yes.

One of the challenges of getting a girl to come over is to overcome her hesitation or resistance. You don’t want to force her or pressure her, but you want to make it easy for her to say yes. Here are some ways to do that:

• Consider her travel time. If she lives far away, offer to pay for her Uber, pick her up, or drive her to your place. Show her that you care about her convenience and comfort.
• Remove the pressure from her decision. Tell her that you just want to hang out, have fun, and enjoy each other’s company. No strings attached, no expectations, no judgments. Make her feel relaxed and safe with you.
• Offer her incentives. Based on what you know about her, offer her something that she likes or wants. It could be wine, popcorn, cakes, or anything else that makes her happy. Show her that you pay attention to her preferences and that you want to please her.
• Be flexible and accommodating. If she has other commitments or obligations, suggest a time that works for both of you. Offer to drop her off at her place, her office, or anywhere else that is convenient for her. Show her that you respect her schedule and that you are willing to help her out.
• Be subtle and casual. Don’t make it sound like a big deal or a formal date. Just casually mention that you have something cool or interesting to show her at your place, or that you want to share something with her. Make it sound like a natural and spontaneous invitation, not a planned or desperate one.
• Be confident and flirty. Show her that you are attracted to her and that you have a good sense of humor. Make her laugh and smile, compliment her, tease her, and touch her lightly. Show her that you are fun and charming, not boring or creepy.
• Be trustworthy and reliable. Show her that you are a man of your word and that you keep your promises. If you say you will do something, do it. If you say you will call her, call her. If you say you will respect her boundaries, respect them. Show her that you are honest and dependable, not shady or flaky.

These are some ways to make it easy for her to say yes to your invitation.

Remember, you are not trying to “push a sale” or manipulate her. You are just trying to smooth out the obstacles and make her feel comfortable and excited.

You invited her because you like her and you want to spend time with her. It’s up to her to say yes, but you can make it easier for her by following these tips.

5. Pick a date spot close to your apartment.

Women are wary of the men they meet online. Sometimes they insist that you meet first in a public setting.

Here’s what you can do. Pick a meeting location that is near your place. This way, you can easily transition from the date to your place, without making it seem too obvious or awkward.

Here are some tips to do that:

• If you want to meet her before she comes over, choose a venue that is about 5-10 minutes away from where you live or where she lives. This will make it convenient for both of you to travel and save time. And you have a good excuse to say, “The restaurants are closing, but I just live a few blocks away. We could hang out there.”
• If you are meeting women online, try to limit your search radius to a few miles. Or, look for women who live in your city or the next city. This will increase your chances of finding someone who is nearby and willing to come over.
• Suggest places that you are familiar with and that she might like. It could be a park, a café, a bakeshop, or anything else that suits her taste. Show her that you know the area well and that you have good suggestions. You will always find great places near you where you can meet women over. After that suggest going back to your place.
• You can also get her to come over first before going out again. For example, you can say that you forgot to buy some snacks or drinks and that you need to stop by your place for a minute. This will make her more comfortable with your place and lower her resistance.
• Invite her to meet at your place and share an Uber ride. Tell her it’s a better option. Then later that night she’ll always come back to your place. You can invite her in to freshen up, use the bathroom, or maybe for something she’s curious about. She’s already there, there’s no harm for her to say no. You already gave her a good time with a date. If she goes up to your place it’s a big sign that she wants something more.
• Having a meeting spot near your place is also good when there are emergencies that might happen. If her bra strap snaps or her heels break, offer to fix them or lend her something at your place. Or if a drink spilled on her dress. It’s a pretty good excuse for her to come over and let her borrow your shirt.

The gist is when you want to meet with her, make it easy for you guys to come back to your place. Because your place is walking distance. Make it easy for you to bring her to your place.

6. Don’t let her turn you down.

This tip does not mean that you don’t respect her NO. It only means that you try to minimize the chances of her saying NO to your offer.

 Before you ask her to come over, make sure she is free and available.

Ask her about her schedule and what she is doing later that night. It is easier to get her to come over when she has nothing planned and she is in the mood for some fun.

But being free is not enough.

She might be free but too far away from you. She might be free but unable to leave the house because of bad weather. She might be free now but have something important to do later or just exhausted from work or other obligations.

That’s why you need to do your research and ask her questions. Don’t interrogate her, but flirt with her.

Find out what she likes, what she wants, and what she needs. And if she is too tired, offer her a ride or a massage. Remember to make it easy for her to say yes to you.

7. Don’t rush or force it

Another mistake to avoid when getting a girl to come over is to act desperate or pushy.

Women can sense when you are only after sex and they will lose interest in you.

Instead, test the waters and see if she is into you. Is she laughing at your jokes, responding fast, asking questions about you, and showing curiosity about you? Are you guys talking like you have a good connection and rapport?

Don’t just invite women over without building some attraction and trust first. And don’t be angry or bitter when she says no.

You have to trust the process and be patient. Even if it takes a couple of hours or more to make her comfortable and excited to talk and meet up with you, it will be worth it.

Don’t rush it and say something that might ruin your chances or make you regret it. Or, she might say something that will turn you off and make you glad you didn’t invite her over.

Getting a girl to come over is requires some time and effort. Even if you’re just after something casual.

You have to respect her pace and feelings, and not force or pressure her into anything.

You have to show her that you are interested in her as a person, and not just after sex. Even if you guys talked about doing it.

You have to make her feel comfortable and happy with you, not scared or annoyed by you.

8. Lines you can use

Here are some good lines you could use to get girls to come over. Use them when you know she’s free, has no commitments, is enjoying talking to you, and probably wants to take it to the next level.

• “How about we hang out later tonight, say 6 pm? I can pick you up since you’re not too far from me.”
• “I have an idea since you’re free later. I’m preparing dinner right now. Maybe you could join. And you can meet my adorable dog, Max.”

Getting a girl to come over is not as hard as it seems.

You need to know more about her, what she likes, what she wants, and what she needs.

You need to make it easy for her to say yes, by picking a date spot close to your place, offering her incentives and convenience, and removing the pressure and hesitation.

You need to be confident and flirty, but not desperate or pushy. You need to respect her pace and feelings, and not rush or force anything.

If you do these things, you will increase your chances of getting a girl to come over and have a great time with you.

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