What To Do After Meeting Women

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What men should do after they met a lovely girl

So you want to meet women?

Do you like to be just friends with her? Yeah ok. But if you want more intimacy, romance, or a little raunchiness, then you need to reconsider your game plan.

When you’re trying to meet women, your plan should revolve going beyond small talk.

There’s no point in meeting or talking to women if you don’t plan to sexually escalate or close.

If you just want to be friends with women, there’s nothing wrong with it. Have fun and build a deeper connection.

But if you plan to take things further, you should ensure you can create the chemistry and desire.

Your plan should not stop after getting her number or convincing her to get a date. It should go beyond that.

Here’s the most basic plan for meeting women. Let’s review.

This is how guys usually meet women.

Here’s the most basic plan for meeting women. Let’s review.

  1. The first step is to approach women. Yes, you actually need to talk to women. Talk to them, chat with them. You’ve got to go up to them and say a simple, witty line that could get their attention and get them talking to you.
  2. Sometimes, small talk is inevitable. But you have to move on from this phase quickly. These sometimes include introducing yourself and asking basic questions. Less than a minute is enough, or she’ll get bored.
  3. The next step is to try to build a connection in a very short period. The point is to make her see you, not as a stranger. So, get her laughing or giggling. Bring her defenses down so that she can see the great guy you are.
  4. It’s best to get her contact information if she’s preoccupied at that moment. Text her or chat her up after. This is where some men choke. You’ve already got her talking to you. Why stop there? Find sure ways to meet up with her again. An option is to get her number.
  5. Now, these next steps are the fork in the road. This is the point where many guys who aspire to be more than just friends often find themselves improvising or hoping for a stroke of luck. They’re hoping for something beyond friendship but don’t have a plan and rely on chance. Let me explain.

What Do Guys Do After Getting Her Number?

Most men who don’t get success with women rely on luck. After getting her number, they plan to “get to know her more.” Nothing terrible about that.

Another mistake is using text or chat to “learn more about her personality.” These two mistakes will leave you in the friend zone.

When men try to see what she’s all about through text, they tend to ask interview-style questions that would make any woman dry up.

They say, “know her interests.” Or find out what she likes or dislikes. It’s good and all. But you need to reserve that when you meet up or go on a date with her. The best way is to know her face-to-face.

Again, everything is fine with getting to know about her personality. But if you’re going to do it, you should make sure that she’s having fun and get her to want to see you again eagerly.

You don’t want to bore her with questions about her hobbies and interests. She will find you dull and unoriginal and prefer the confident guy who makes her laugh and giggle with his witty jokes.

You might also think about inserting some flirty or naughty jokes in there, but if you’re not that smooth, she’ll assume you’re a try-hard. It’s ok, we’ve all been there before. Here’s what you can do.

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What Can I Do To Move Things Forward With Women?

1. Plan everything

Having a strategy for meeting ladies is a must. More so, you should have a plan AFTER meeting women.

Most men are just wishing that a fortunate outcome goes their way. I did, too.

I thought bars and clubs were the best places to find girls. And that it wouldn’t be hard.

I would have eye contact with girls and get to dance with them. We’d both say hi. We’d probably make out. Shit, it wasn’t easy. But I figured things out.

But after figuring that part out, I don’t know what to do after. Should I bring her to my car?

I lucked out one night and got a number of a hot girl. She was laughing at all my jokes, even hugging me. I thought she was so into me.

I texted her every day. I asked how her day was and what she was up to. I felt like we were getting close through our conversation.

Looking back, it turns out I was burying my own grave. We got to hang out, but my heart skipped a beat when she said, “You’re such a nice friend.” Because apparently, every other guy is trying to get into her pants.

I do, too. It’s just that I immediately got stuck in the friend zone. She even pulled away after I built up some courage to kiss her.

2. Give her a little mystery

Yes, text her to get to know her, but only a little. Give her a chance to ask you questions, too. Make her think about you. Your conversation with her should result in her getting excited to see you.

3. Don’t have a very lengthy conversation.

Again, you should create an atmosphere of mystery. The effect that you would want is her eagerly awaiting your next message. Then, after that, get her looking forward to meeting you again.

Do this only in the initial stages of getting to know each other. You don’t have to reveal all your cards right away. So only give bits of information. Enough to get her laughing and wanting to meet up with you.

Tease her. Update her on what’s going on in your life. Laugh at funny things in life. Insert a little flirtation here and there. That’s it for now.

4. Arrange the meetup.

It’s all about logistics at this point. Time and place are all you need. But remember, a private place is much better to get more physically intimate.

5. Hang out and have a date.

So where do you plan to hang out with her? At a coffee place? At your place? At her place? At a fancy restaurant?

Nothing expensive. Most importantly, you guys should have fun getting to know each other and be flirty when needed. And you could do that when you could have a little privacy.

Don’t be late, cancel, or change plans at the last minute.

Once you both arrive, the most important thing is to make her feel relaxed.

You can make her feel good by noticing and praising her appearance. Or tease her quirkiness. personality, or achievements.

Your goal is not just to get to know her but to move things forward.

Don’t just ask questions about her hobbies, passions, goals, or experiences. Make things lively, playful, and flirtatious too. You should do it, or things won’t go forward.

Most of all, don’t criticize, judge, or pressure her. Don’t be too pushy or needy. If you feel it, and she feels it, then get intimate.

What do you do after meeting women? Make her excited to see you again. Avoid the friend zone at all costs. Then, when you hang out, make sure that you get physically intimate. You can decide after that. Would you like her to be your girlfriend? She could be a friend with benefits. It’s up to you.

The point is to be in a good position and not stuck in the friend zone. Because if you do, you will miss out on the opportunity to sleep with her or have a romantic relationship.

You will also feel frustrated, resentful, and unhappy. She may even take you for granted and use you as a backup plan. You don’t want to be that guy.

If you have a successful interaction with a woman, don’t let it end there. Have a follow-up plan to keep in touch with her and see her again.

You can ask for her phone number, her social media, or her email. You can also suggest a date, a hangout, or a meetup. You can then text her, call her, or message her to show your interest and make plans.

Don’t wait too long or play games. Be honest and direct. Show her that you like her and that you want to see her again.

If you need more help, we have this guide to show you the ropes.

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